{"id":2168,"date":"2024-12-02T09:00:18","date_gmt":"2024-12-02T09:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/?p=2168"},"modified":"2024-11-19T11:36:48","modified_gmt":"2024-11-19T11:36:48","slug":"my-tower-your-heart","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2024\/12\/02\/my-tower-your-heart\/","title":{"rendered":"My Tower. Your heart."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Dr Joseph Hawkins, Consultant in Palliative Medicine, Clinical lead for End of Life Care, Ashford and St Peter\u2019s NHS Foundation Trust. Twitter: @JoeHawk75825077<\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-thumbnail wp-image-2034\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2024\/01\/Jo-Hawkins-2024-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Photo of Jo Hawkins\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2024\/01\/Jo-Hawkins-2024-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2024\/01\/Jo-Hawkins-2024-250x250.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The Wood of simple Words was first, the construction began<br \/>\nStrong and supple<br \/>\nbuilt upon<br \/>\nSimplicity- Mother and Father<br \/>\nIt felt strong and formed so much<br \/>\nThat first timber<br \/>\nwarped<br \/>\nToo green, too naive it could not<br \/>\nSurvive all that happened<br \/>\nBut I learned that rock came next<br \/>\nEternal strong,<br \/>\nUnbowing in the elements<br \/>\nIt sat like grey statements of thought<br \/>\nAnd learning<br \/>\nToo soon it crumbled because it couldn\u2019t change<br \/>\nSo change took it and turned it to dust.<br \/>\nNow I stand upon glass, hard but moving it<br \/>\nAllows the new through it with little resistance.<br \/>\nYet I feel exposed<br \/>\nStanding upon my tower and looking upon it\u2019s foundations<br \/>\nI realise that all I had is unstable<br \/>\nAnd all I have is transparent.<br \/>\nYet I offer it to you.<br \/>\nMy Tower.<br \/>\nyour Heart.<br \/>\nIf you\u2019ll have it.<\/p>\n<p>-Dedicated to Katie, my heart.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Also by this Author:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2024\/11\/15\/the-palliative-times-special-education-issue\/\">The Palliative Times. Special education issue<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2024\/11\/01\/the-nature-of-joy\/\">The nature of joy<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2024\/09\/15\/the-cinderella-phenomenon\/\">The Cinderella phenomenon<\/a><!--TrendMD v2.4.8--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Dr Joseph Hawkins, Consultant in Palliative Medicine, Clinical lead for End of Life Care, Ashford and St Peter\u2019s NHS Foundation Trust. Twitter: @JoeHawk75825077 The Wood of simple Words was first, the construction began Strong and supple built upon Simplicity- Mother and Father It felt strong and formed so much That first timber warped Too [&#8230;]<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"btn btn-secondary understrap-read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2024\/12\/02\/my-tower-your-heart\/\">Read More&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":470,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2409],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2168","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-poets-corner"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2168","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/470"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2168"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2168\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2168"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2168"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2168"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}