{"id":2018,"date":"2023-11-12T08:00:23","date_gmt":"2023-11-12T08:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/?p=2018"},"modified":"2023-11-09T11:30:40","modified_gmt":"2023-11-09T11:30:40","slug":"the-value-of-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2023\/11\/12\/the-value-of-care\/","title":{"rendered":"The value of Care."},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Dr Joseph Hawkins, Consultant in Palliative Medicine, Clinical lead for End of Life Care, Ashford and St Peter\u2019s NHS Foundation Trust. Twitter: @JoeHawk75825077<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-rotated.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-1842\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-640x853.jpg 640w, https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-rotated.jpg 1158w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>When I purchased my<br \/>\nToaster- don\u2019t laugh,<br \/>\nI looked -at all of Google\u2019s best<br \/>\n(Free) reviews,<br \/>\nTwo weeks I persisted<br \/>\nIn the search for the right one.<\/p>\n<p>At two weeks in,<br \/>\nI chose the cheapest on<br \/>\nAmazon.<br \/>\nStill made toast I thought.<br \/>\nAnd it does.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not fancy toast but it works.<\/p>\n<p>Now I have to decide for you.<br \/>\nNot about toast of course, I never saw you eat toast. Funny thought that<br \/>\nImagine- me thinking about you eating toast<br \/>\nAt a time like this.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t tell me anymore what you want,<br \/>\nNot even about\u2026 must stop thinking about<br \/>\nToast(ers).<\/p>\n<p>Of course you\u2019d never<br \/>\nResearch like I do-<br \/>\nYou\u2019d probably buy the cheapest toaster<br \/>\nOn Amazon.<\/p>\n<p>Now I\u2019ve got to agree your<br \/>\nCare.<br \/>\nFunny word-these people I don\u2019t know<br \/>\nComing in,<br \/>\nYou a good 20 minute drive from me<br \/>\nNot as if you couldn\u2019t have moved<br \/>\nCloser.<br \/>\nBack when you started forgetting.<\/p>\n<p>Now I wonder.<br \/>\nDo you owe me &#8211; you have so much,<br \/>\nYou can\u2019t even appreciate it now.<br \/>\nI\u2019ll get the carers,<br \/>\nTwice a day seems fine.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019ll never care for you<br \/>\nLike I do.<br \/>\nJust because they see you now,<br \/>\nThey didn\u2019t see you then.<br \/>\nI can\u2019t do the things they do,<br \/>\nThey\u2019re just payed to do it.<br \/>\nYou can\u2019t pay for what I do.<\/p>\n<p>Also by this author:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2023\/10\/02\/say-you-have-to-go\/\">Say You Have To Go<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2023\/09\/02\/the-tree-that-stands-by-my-window\/\">The Tree That Stands By My Window<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2023\/06\/11\/im-afraid-i-have-to-go-now\/\">I&#8217;m Afraid I have To Go Now<\/a><!--TrendMD v2.4.8--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Dr Joseph Hawkins, Consultant in Palliative Medicine, Clinical lead for End of Life Care, Ashford and St Peter\u2019s NHS Foundation Trust. Twitter: @JoeHawk75825077 When I purchased my Toaster- don\u2019t laugh, I looked -at all of Google\u2019s best (Free) reviews, Two weeks I persisted In the search for the right one. 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