{"id":1993,"date":"2023-10-02T08:00:21","date_gmt":"2023-10-02T08:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/?p=1993"},"modified":"2023-07-21T13:17:14","modified_gmt":"2023-07-21T13:17:14","slug":"say-you-have-to-go","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2023\/10\/02\/say-you-have-to-go\/","title":{"rendered":"Say you have to go"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Dr Joseph Hawkins, Consultant in Palliative Medicine, Clinical lead for End of Life Care, Ashford and St Peter\u2019s NHS Foundation Trust. Twitter: @JoeHawk75825077<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-rotated.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-1842\" src=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-640x853.jpg 640w, https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/files\/2023\/02\/IMG_2041-rotated.jpg 1158w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Say you have to go,<br \/>\nTell me, then I shall know.<br \/>\nWe left unsaid<br \/>\nAlways the words crouched<br \/>\nHidden jungle cats<br \/>\nBetween the forest trees of triviality<br \/>\nConstructed of words and nothings<br \/>\nThat we pretended<br \/>\nMeant so much<br \/>\nWhilst all we could see<br \/>\nWere eyes glowing in the reflection<br \/>\nOf our fears.<\/p>\n<p>And now it seems that the night has come<br \/>\nAnd I\u2019ve seen -the day has had it\u2019s time.<br \/>\nWhen the sun recedes<br \/>\nThere is no regret in the night,<br \/>\nIt holds only rest<br \/>\nAnd you have earned<br \/>\nThat peace.<br \/>\nAnd all I want to hear<br \/>\nIs that you know<br \/>\nThat I want nothing for you<br \/>\nBut to hear<br \/>\nThat<br \/>\nYou<br \/>\nKnow<br \/>\nYou must go.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Also by this author:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2023\/06\/11\/im-afraid-i-have-to-go-now\/\">I\u2019m afraid I have to go now<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2023\/05\/11\/people-arent-avocados\/\">People aren\u2019t avocados<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2023\/05\/04\/the-palliative-times\/\">The Palliative Times<\/a><!--TrendMD v2.4.8--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Dr Joseph Hawkins, Consultant in Palliative Medicine, Clinical lead for End of Life Care, Ashford and St Peter\u2019s NHS Foundation Trust. Twitter: @JoeHawk75825077 Say you have to go, Tell me, then I shall know. We left unsaid Always the words crouched Hidden jungle cats Between the forest trees of triviality Constructed of words and [&#8230;]<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"btn btn-secondary understrap-read-more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/2023\/10\/02\/say-you-have-to-go\/\">Read More&#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":470,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2409],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1993","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-poets-corner"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1993","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/470"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1993"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1993\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.bmj.com\/spcare\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}